Whānau Connections
This page explores simple ways to strengthen whānau relationships
and support your social and family wellbeing.
Why Whānau Connection Matters
Whānau is at the heart of our hauora.
Whether it’s blood family, chosen family, or the people who uplift and support us —
meaningful connection with others is essential for our wellbeing.
Healthy relationships give us a sense of belonging, safety, and identity.
They help us feel seen, supported, and grounded through life’s ups and downs.
Whānau connection is not always easy —
every relationship takes time, energy, and care.
But when we nurture those bonds, we also nurture ourselves.
Reconnection might look like spending time together,
having honest kōrero, creating new rituals, or simply reaching out to check in.
Whānau Connection
Suggestions
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Whether it’s a friend, support worker, or someone in your circle — reach out to connect. Even one good convo can shift your day. Send a text, make a call, or sit down for a kōrero. Small moments of connection can make a big difference.
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Plan time with the people who feel like family to you. Chosen whānau is just as powerful — share a meal, a walk, or do something fun together. Plan a meal, movie night, or outing — something that brings joy and togetherness without pressure.
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Open up to someone who holds space for you. If you don’t have that person yet, try journaling or joining a support group. Be open about how you're doing — it builds trust and lets others know they can be open too.
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Start simple rituals with people who feel good to be around — a weekly catch-up, shared karakia, Sunday walk, or game night.
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Explore your family history, stories, or cultural roots together. It deepens connection and identity.
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It’s strong to reach out. Let your whānau know what you need, even if it’s just company or quiet time together.
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Spaces like community events, classes, or support circles can help you meet like-minded people and grow your network.
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Volunteering or helping someone else can build connection and purpose, especially when you’re craving belonging.
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Think of someone who’s made a difference in your life and thank them — even a small message can deepen connection.
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Try platforms like Meetup, Eventbrite, or even interest-based groups on Facebook to find community in your area.
Possible Resources
Explore the suggested resources below — or click the button to discover more Whānau Connection supports. You can add any resource to your personalised wellness toolkit as you go.
